For families
Finding a safe place for someone you love
A lot of our residents came to us because a family member picked up the phone. We have four homes for men and the Parkhouse for female/female-identifying residents. Here's how to choose a sober living home with confidence.
You can make the call
You don't need your loved one on the line to ask questions. Call us, tell us what's going on, and we'll explain how our homes work, whether we have space and what the next step could look like.
Families are welcome on tours. Seeing the house and meeting the manager is the best way to know whether it's somewhere you'd feel good about your person living.
With your loved one's permission, we're glad to keep you in the loop once they move in.
What to look for in a sober living home
Not every sober living is run well. As one resident put it, finding a safe house can feel like searching through “a sea of sketchy and money minded houses.” Signs of a good one:
- Rules that are written down, explained before move-in and enforced for everyone
- Regular, random drug and alcohol testing
- A curfew and expectations about work, school or volunteering
- Real involvement in a recovery program, not just a bed
- A clean, well-maintained house with a manager who's present
- Straight answers about cost, what's included and what happens if someone relapses
Questions to ask any sober home
- What are the house rules, and what happens when someone breaks one?
- How often do you drug test, and who does it?
- Who manages the house day to day?
- What does it cost, and what's included?
- Is the home certified by a recovery residence organization?
- Can we tour before deciding?
Taking care of yourself
Loving someone in early recovery is exhausting. Support groups like Al-Anon and Nar-Anon exist for exactly this, and many families find them as helpful as their loved one finds the 12 steps.
For free, confidential treatment referrals any time, the SAMHSA National Helpline is at 1-800-662-4357. If someone is in danger, call 911. For a mental health or substance use crisis, call or text 988.
From other families
What families tell us
“The Clubhouse is a very well kept, clean and reputable sober living. My brother was a short term resident out of rehabilitation. The manager and staff at the house helped to motivate and support him on his road to recovery.”
Kaitlyn W.Family member · Google, 2023 “This place is by far the most honest place I have seen for a sober living. I have been looking at a place for my cousin and this was the best. Top notch manager and cleanliness of the house. You won’t be disappointed. Connor answered all my questions and was super helpful in guiding me through the process to help my cousin. Highly recommend.”
Roberto L.Family member · Google, 2024 “I had the opportunity to visit for my husband and I could not have picked a better place. The manager was super helpful in answering all our questions as this is my husband's first time in a sober living. We weren't sure what to expect but this is such a clean and positive environment. I feel that anyone who is looking for a place to get clean and stay sober this is the one for you.”
Courtney Z.Family member · Google, 2023 “My brother moved out here from CO to get help and this place has been the best thing for him. This place is so clean, and they truly wants to help you succeed with your sobriety. If I could give this place a million stars I would.”
NikoeletteFamily member · Google, 2023 “Beautiful property ! Management really stresses the importance of the 12 steps and helped get my grandson on the right path. Amazing fellowship”
Judy N.Family member · Google, 2024 “This is by far the best sober living I came across was looking for my brother in law they were so welcoming answered all my questions highly recommend”
Laura M.Family member · Google, 2023
Questions
Questions families ask
Not necessarily, but you do need to be sober when you arrive. If you're still drinking or using, or could have a dangerous withdrawal, start with detox or treatment first. Call us and we'll talk through where you are and point you to the right next step.
Yes. Call or request a tour and we'll set up a time to walk through a home and answer your questions. Families are welcome to tour too.
Talk with us about your loved one
No pressure and no obligation. We'll tell you honestly whether one of our homes is a good fit, and help you think through next steps if it isn't.